Surprisingly, it’s actually very easy to get your ex boyfriend to WANT YOU back after a breakup. It all comes down to male psychology. The trick is to push his "emotional hot buttons." Triggers that are specific only to men.
Use these triggers, and you will see him coming to you on his knees, pleading desperately for you to take him back.
Jennifer stood in the doorway, her hands gripped tightly in front of her. She had dressed in a hurry without her usual care—her blouse had missed the waistband of her skirt on one side and her taupe hose were laddered. I could tell she had been crying but was doing her best to cover it up.
Jennifer visibly relaxed, and the look of hope in her eyes was unmistakable. I knew why she had come to me. I have …well, let’s call it unique…expertise when it came to situations like this. As a male, and a relationship coach, I knew exactly what "buttons" she could push to bring her boyfriend around…on his knees…begging her to take him back. I know what makes boyfriends, fiancés, and husbands crazy—the the male-specific triggers that women can pull to get what they want from the men in their lives.
“It seemed like he was slipping away from me, paying less and less attention to me and the relationship. I didn’t know what to do…"
I know all too well that this happens all the freakin’ time. The scenario recurs over and over again: Everything is going well with you and your boyfriend until eventually:
In Jennifer’s case, this went on for about two months, and it drove the poor girl almost crazy trying to figure out why. The, one day, seemingly out of nowhere, he casually says those four little words that made Jennifer’s stomach tighten and heart go nuts:
When they met for coffee, Jennifer was wound tight with nervousness. She was afraid of what she sensed was coming. He started out with small talk, which only made things worse. Jennifer concentrated hard on holding herself together as he worked through a list of the “usual suspects,” things like:
He even implied that Jennifer was the one responsible for the problems in the relationship. After that, things went predictably. He moved on, leaving Jennifer still in shock and wondering what hit her. It’s no wonder that by the time she reached my door the poor girl was desperate and way beyond upset.
And after that, the rest is history. You already know how it ends because it literally just happened to you. And just like my friend Jennifer, you’re going to need my help, so read on.
You can’t sleep. You have lost your appetite. Your friends are worried about you because you just stay at home and watch TV all the time. Everything looks bleak and depressing, and you have not energy or motivation to change things.